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I can teach you to get a man, keep him … and make him beg for more

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— Mistress of seduction reveals how to land perfect man  — Saucy author has bedded famous singers and TV stars — Nymphomaniac  Arden Leigh says ‘no man is unattainable’

Arden Leigh in bra
‘Women need to go after the men they want’ … Arden  Leigh
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By JANE ATKINSON and HANNAH HARGRAVE

DESPITE her stunning looks, Arden Leigh’s love life  was a disaster – until she  began rigorous study and training to become a weapon  of mass seduction.

Now Arden, 27, teaches women across the world how to get a man, keep him —  and  make him beg for more.

She has created seduction techniques which she guarantees will help all  women, no matter how they look, to land their dream man.

In an exclusive interview with The Sun, Arden says: “I might come across as  super-confident with men but I haven’t always been that way.

“In fact, I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 18 and didn’t have my first  boyfriend or lose my virginity until I was 22.

“I was a barmaid, with a mundane job, and was massively unsuccessful in my  love life. I was lonely, frustrated and miserable. I fell for men who didn’t  feel the same way about me.

“But then I decided that enough was enough, I discovered the art of  seduction,  and everything changed.

“I’ve studied and honed my technique to a fine art, lost 20lb, corset-trained  my waist and now have the skills to get the men I always thought were  unattainable. In the past three years I’ve become a professional seductress  and am now living the life of my dreams.

“I’ve slept with famous singers, writers and TV stars, proving that nobody is  truly unattainable to me. But seduction is a life of service and isn’t easy.  I  can never be off my game and now I have dedicated my life to making sure  all  women can be as lucky in love as me.”

Arden Leigh encourages her clients to dance locally
‘Create a burlesque character’ … Arden Leigh encourages  her clients to dance locally
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It was in 2008 when Arden first decided to dedicate her life to the art of  seduction. Sick of hearing about her failing love life, one of her male  friends suggested some reading material and she became fascinated by Neil  Strauss’s controversial pick-up book The Game, as well as Robert Greene’s  The  Art of Seduction.

Then she studied neurolinguistic programming, social dynamics and  conversational hypnosis — changing people’s behaviour subconsciously — and  soon realised she could change both her life and other women’s lives.

She says: “I set up a coaching forum called Siren Seductions. I had women  begging for my expertise. I believe I am the only female pick-up artist and  I  don’t know of anyone else who does what I do for a living.”

Arden gives one-on-one classes and leads groups of women who gather twice a  month.

She says: “Women are always being told what lipstick, lingerie or bedroom  tactics to use and, while I love these things, if that is all a women has in  her arsenal she will not get very far.

“Women need to go after the man they want, to stop wasting their time  worrying  about what a text message means, and instead to concern themselves  with  working out a man’s weakness and discovering what brings him to his knees.

“I teach women how to become the centre of attention, create their own fan  base and go after what they want. Don’t hate the stiletto-wearing stunner  who  turns heads in a bar, become her.

“I go from the very basics, such as flossing and waxing, to doing role play.”

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‘Don’t tell them about your past and how screwed over you  were’ … no-no for date
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One of her clients was a London businesswoman who was successful and  attractive but had a stalled love life. Arden says: “There was one ‘target’   she was interested in but she couldn’t get him to notice her, so she called  me.

“She insisted she had tried it all — subtle glances across the crowded room,  flirty body language when he approached her — but after listening, I  reckoned  she hadn’t tried much at all. To seduce, you cannot let fear of  rejection  override your desire and that’s what she did.

“Once I had talked her through some of my tried-and-trusted techniques, I am  happy to say she landed the man of her dreams.

“Perhaps the women who come to me just want the confidence to chat up a man,  perhaps marriage, maybe just mind-blowing sex with a man they think out of  their league. I can help them achieve all three and much, much more.

“Women often need to address insecurities, to become smoother and more  confident. Ladies need to create a fan club for themselves. They should  become  a personality, an idol for people to worship. I have advised the  braver  seductresses in my circles to create a burlesque character and  perform locally.

“Learn to command a room because then you will have men falling into your  hands by your reputation alone.

“Talk like a man, too. Don’t tell them about your past and how screwed over  you were. Think before you speak and keep what you say to the point. Men  don’t  like whiners.

“Being intense won’t get you a man, either, and certainly won’t make him  stick around. It’s a turn-off, that’s a fact.

“You also need to create a chance to meet the man you fancy by finding his  usual haunts. Turn up at that bar or restaurant when you know he will be  there  then aim to get him away from his friends for time alone.

“It’s not stalking, it’s just being proactive. Life is too short to wait for  someone to find us. Women should actively pursue the man they want.”

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‘Stop worrying about what a text message means’ .. Arden  says women should pursue man they want
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But seduction — which Arden says should also include losing your accent if it  is annoying, and wearing all one colour to stand out — does not stop once  you  get your man. Your home must also ooze seduction.

Arden, from New York, says: “Dog hairs and crusty dishes aren’t sexy. Ensure  you have nice sheets — 600-thread-count sheets and luxury pillows make all  the  difference.”

Her book, The New Rules Of Attraction: How To Get Him, Keep Him, And Make Him  Beg For More, explains more. Arden adds: “Thanks to the techniques, I learnt  no man is unattainable to me — and so, I don’t mind admitting, I’ve become a  nymphomaniac. I just love sex, especially now I can have any man.

“Women who hate what I do are jealous. When women are proactive about love,  it  reminds others they are not doing it.

“I want to help women embody their best self and to get the man they  deserve.”

 

Arden’s guide to seduction

Talk like a man, men don’t like whiny women

Don’t worry about what a text message means

Don’t hate the stiletto-wearing stunner, become her

If you’re brave, create a burlesque character

 



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